Family Relations

  There are many differences in male and female sexual responses and because of that there are lots of challenges and opportunities that arise. Males tend to be aroused very quickly, have a short plateau, and then after an orgasm have to have some time to recover before they are able to have another orgasm. In females however, arousal may take a while, they may plateau for a long time, and they are able to have more than one orgasm without recovery time(which has been described as a pleasant sneeze). Because of these differences, there are lots of challenges that may occur, but also provide lots of opportunities to grow closer together. Women may be distracted during sex, whereas men are typically very focused while they are having sex. There are many false expectations in the world today about sex because of movies and porn that is prevelant all over. Typically when there is a hook up, the woman is more attached than the man is afterwards. There is also often only a love for their...

  In the last blog I wrote about the different types of dating. Something very important to know is that it is very easy to slide into marriage, and that is not good. Attachments that are easily made, are easily broken. After dating (going on dates (potentially with multiple people) there is courtship. Courtship is exclusively dating with marriage in mind. During courtship, make sure to allow space to grow apart from each other. Then comes the engagement. The proposal itself is sacred and intimate, and should be a private event. Every person has their preferences, but it is best if it is sacred and intimate. Then there are boundaries put in place that will last through marriage. With the engagement, that is a good time to close relationships with other people, specifically those of the opposite gender. The guy should propose on one knee for multiple reasons. Proposing on one knee shows that he is vulnerable and committed first. It also shows that he has incredible respect for her. ...

  There are two different types of dating that we normally see in the modern world. Those are assortative dating, and the “date to hate” philosophy. Assortative dating is where you start out with lots of different people(aka going on lots of dates with different people) and then narrowing down from there based on if you liked the date or person. Date to hate on the other hand, is where you hone in on one person until you hate them.  There can be lots of advice that people give, but some are better than others. It is best to date for a year or two because it takes time to get to know someone well. People may often forget to think, which is really bad. Relationships aren’t just about feelings. Use your brain and think about the logistics. You need to remember and think about the future. What do you want your future spouse to be like. Make sure to date someone who you want your future spouse to be like. Remember, you aren’t just dating for you, you are also dating to find the par...

There are many different typical characteristics for both male and female. Those characteristics complement each other. For example, here is a list of make and female typical characteristics. Females: Nurturing Cooperative Communication Sensitive to emotions Emotionally expressive Relative orientation Make choices based on how it will affect others Scatterbrained in danger Males:  Active, combative Competitive Spacial orientation Make decisions based on right and wrong Tunnel vision in danger/protective mode Aggressive physically Myopic Risk taking We need to connect and learn the best qualities from each other. This is why marriage is between a man and a woman. We need both sides of the spectrum. Finding someone who compliments you is essential to a good, healthy relationship or marriage.  There is gray and white matter in the brain. Gray matter is like the CPU and RPM of the brain, and is more common in men than women. This explains why men typically make decisions based on ...